Took it easy yesterday, and watched "La Vie En Rose" on NetFlix. Sat with a heating pad on my back all evening after having all the muscles in my lower back become as uptight as "a church lady at a nude beach". Aleve, and heat alternating with cold have done the trick. I'd still like to start Salsa lessons, but I want to take it slowly - lots of stretching. I'll start that next week.
In the meantime, I've been re-evaluating on-line dating - trying to answer "Why am I doing this?" I think the best answer I've come up with is I'm seeking an attractive woman who fits within my desires and brings something special to the table.
And I want to be respectful of people's time and energy. I only want to contact women that fit my criteria because I don't want to waste time chatting with women who aren't a long-term fit. My focus is quality over quantity.
TMI? Someone from work spotted me here, and now they ALL know. Even my BOSS saw this. He said, "Dude - Too Much Information. You're bound to say one dumb thing and drive a potential date away." I thought about this, and said, "Cool!"
The words are the most important part, and if I 'say' something that would drive someone away, it would be better to find that out up front.
The Shark Club mixer was well attended - over 50 people(!). BikerDiva's birthday bash - she was in great form, as always. Saw Wendita, eyes of blue, hair of fiery red, looking healthy as ever. I'm not sure she recognized me without the mustache & goatee... There was only 1 bartender, and he was swamped. By the time I got something to eat (nearby burger place), and got back, it was "a night".
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