I don't want to forget the Furry 5K Run and Walk at Seward Park today - a couple of thousand people, and their pets, walking and running 3.6miles to support the Seattle Animal Shelter. It was fantastic! I saw lots of interesting, fit, active women (and men), and more women... with their pets.
I was struck by the interactions of a couple of guys with their significant others... my advice to them would be: "Grow A Pair, Guys!" Damn... the guys I saw sounded like they were "one of the girls", trying so hard to please, that they didn't have an opinion, and didn't want to make a decision for fear of offending someone (or making their opinions known). And I found that pretty offensive, and I'm sure the women they were with weren't too happy with them either. Guys... you are NEVER going to be a woman's girlfriend. That doesn't mean you have a to be a chauvinist, macho asshole - it simply means you should be comfortable with your manhood, and own the fact that you have a brain, and aren't afraid to use it. I would even go so far as to propose that women would like you BETTER if you were to 'man up', and grow a spine, as well as a set of balls.
Only, if you're in a marriage, and you come to this realization... it would be wise to let your spouse know you've discovered your 'nards', else she may be driven off - unable to deal with a real man. For both men and women - don't let ANYONE walk all over you. It is NOT okay - regardless of the sex of the 'walker'. I stopped being walked on, but in the process ended my marriage... so be aware, and straight forward about what you're doing lest you drive your spouse away.
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